The world is not against you and no one is born with a ‘grey
cloud’ over his head. The future is not the past. One can easily overcome the
ordeals of childhood but the pain and disappointment of the past need not
repeat in your future endeavors. Do not let
a self-fulfilling prophecy to work in your life. (If you expect bad results
there is a higher likelihood that they happen.) Do not worry about what is
happening to you and what has happened so far, but think about what you can
make happen. Learn from the past and set new goals (be careful in their
choice-you should simply enjoy working for them) and pursue them. If you try sincerely some of them will yield
good results and some others not so good. Have at least a mixed bag. Make positive incantations involving your
body and soul. Make a list of your positive qualities and achievements and post
them where you can see them very often.
Start savoring everything good life has to offer. Make
enough money for our basic needs: it can be (annually) $40,000 in the US,
Rs600,000 in India and so on. More money need not necessarily make you happier.
Stay close to your dear ones as relationships with our friends and family has a
closer impact on our happiness. Have a job you enjoy doing. Smile more; forgive
and forget. Do not torment yourself with grudge or enmity. Have people around
you who share your interests. When something goes wrong, try to figure out what
went wrong and fix it up; do not indulge in self pity or curse your fate. Try
to be healthy through exercise, diet and meditations. Know that every day
offers new opportunities to be better than yesterday. Enjoy what you are at this moment. Nothing else matters. These days
we are always doing something or the other. The ambitious work harder and
longer with fewer breaks. Are you always busy and still achieve nothing? Do you
miss those beautiful and joyous moments of life simply because you’re always
caught up with one thing or another? Many feel It is good to take a little time
off to look into yourself to see what is going on in your life, to think about
those hours you are ‘doing’, to examine your work, health, relationships, just
to take some time to be with your inner self. Moments of silence could be found
anytime during a day to reflect on the good things that happen in life and to
feel grateful to nature and the people around.
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