The immediate
answer is yes. Your childhood, parents, poverty or prosperity at birth, your
native country, the era of your birth are all beyond your control. One can pass
his childhood in utter poverty or amidst wealth depending on the parents.
Educated and wealthy parents may give a better childhood than uneducated and
poor ones. Those who do not like or love each other, irrespective of their
other conditions, can make a child’s life a hell. The country of birth determines
to a large extend an youngster’s years. One that is born in Somalia, Ethiopia, India,
or Bangladesh will have to confront diseases and wants from day one. The chances
that it will survive childhood are very low. Whereas those born in the United States,
Scandinavian countries, Belgium, Australia, Japan, Korea and some of the
northern European nations will have far better childhood. Childhood is beyond anyone’s conscious
control.
All the great artistic geniuses are more born than made. One cannot, by any
amount of hard work, become a Picasso, Michel Angelo, Shakespeare or Beethoven.
An inherited athletic frame is very much needed to be a world champion. Anyone cannot
become a Michael Jordan, Carl Louis, Mark Spitz or Ian James
Thorpe. There are people with unique voice most apt for singing like Ray
Charles. There are people who
sing and those who take that voice to another, otherworldly place andcreate a
euphoria within themselves like Elvis Presley. Any amount of effort will not take
one to their levels. How many can dream to have the sweet melodious voice of
Lata Mangeshkar? How many girls are endowed with the features of Iswarya Rai, Bar
Rafaeli or Jessica Homes ?
How many can become like Abraham
Lincoln, Roosevelt or Mother Teresa? Even greatness is more born. The biology
and the structure of one’s brain, IQ level, will and one’s EQ-which propel one
to success or failure, is very much genetically transferred. They are, by far, a product of genetic lottery
and early environment. But this is not to undermine the impact of one’s
personal efforts. But the urge to put in the effort emanate from one’s
convictions and beliefs which, to a very great extent is influenced by the
circumstances where one is raised. But there is no point in crying over what
one does not have. We have to try with what we have and live a meaningful and
successful life making us happy and alive.
Prince
Charles is born the Prince of Wales. Rahul Gandhi is born the future PM of India.
The sons of Mukesh and Anil Ambani are
born inheriting business empires. There are millions who become billionaires by
virtue of their birth alone. Dynastic ascendance to power and wealth is
commonly seen in many parts of the world. At other end of the spectrum we see billions inheriting
poverty, diseases and death. There is a lot of luck and ill-luck in life. By
persistent efforts one can overcome debilitating poverty but he lost childhood and
its sad memories will haunt him throughout life. Further everyone do not get
the disposition to put in the efforts.
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